Revisited: Blogging Personna

About a week ago, I wrote a post about the thoughts I had about how a blog reveals the type of person that you are. I very much appreciated everyone's comments on this. Today, A Mom Who Thinks Too Much wrote a post called, "Is This Blog, Me?" I usually place my comments in the 'comment section.' But, her post brought out an assortment of thoughts that would probably be better expressed in a conversational full post.

Some bloggers, like some "people," are simply more steady in the face they present to different people (these are the people who say "my blog is pretty much me"); others are more chameleon, showing a different face to different people. There's nothing wrong with either way. Personally, my blog is in many ways the core me---but it isn't the full me. Sometimes when I write an edgier post, that departs from my normal "sweet, but cerebral" self, I feel I am taking a risk.

At least for me, blogging is kind of like a window into the soul. What the heck do I mean by that? When we're with certain people, or in certain situations, we can (and do) reveal what we want to reveal about ourselves and our personality. I can be upbeat or more subdued when I'm with certain people or in certain situations. Writing posts are the same thing. But, when it comes to your core self, I believe that blogging, as in real life, there are certain qualities that you cannot hide.

But even our cores have more than one side. My friends would add "wicked" (and "funny"), my mother would add "stubborn---but sweet," my husband would agree with the "stubborn" part but would protest vehemently that I am not as sweet as I appear. (He is my spouse after all.) Casual friends would be surprised to find me as talkative and opinionated (even cutting) here than I am in their company. (Though it depends on the person. Some people "see" us better. Why is that?)

I believe that with certain people whom you "just click" with. There are some whom I immediately feel a connection with (granted this is a very small number). But, I definitely understand that some people just "see" us better. Here's a final comment that I will respond to:

I know some bloggers, when they feel a need to depart from their usual "face," or when they are moving into a different phase of their life, will start a new blog entirely. Often it is still even linked to their profile. (Naturally, we don't see easily those that aren't.) "This blog isn't me anymore. I've now moved to ...." It's interesting. I see that and I know exactly what they mean.

I'm so glad that you brought this up. I contemplated for a long time whether to close up this blog and start over - start over with a new blog name and a new blogger name - as a kind of transition to myself. Obviously, I elected not to to that.

Even if you change your clothes, or hair color, or where you live, or whatever external changes you want to make to yourself - or, even if you change your blog color, blog address, or whatever appearance changes to your blog - the essence of your blog comes from within. Your true blog readers and your true non-blog friends will accept you for who you are.

Thanks AWMTTM for your insightful post and your thoughtful response. I feel I'm more of a chameleon type like you...

USA: The World's Best Medical Care?

I seldom read the New York Times, because I pretty much know what I'm going to get even before picking up the paper. (image credit) But, in this morning's editorial section, there is an essay called, "World's Best Medical Care?" Here's the opening paragraph:

Many Americans are under the delusion that we have “the best health care system in the world,” as President Bush sees it, or provide the “best medical care in the world,” as Rudolph Giuliani declared last week. That may be true at many top medical centers. But the disturbing truth is that this country lags well behind other advanced nations in delivering timely and effective care.

Groups like the World Health Organization and the Commonwealth Fund have ranked the US low in certain areas. The NYT piece goes on to outlines eight areas in which the US could do better which include areas like lack of universal health care, high infant mortality rate, low life expectancy at age 60, poor patient satisfaction, and being slow to adopt electronic medical records.

I'm not going to dispute most of this article. There are some good points and it is a decent analysis of how the American health care system could improve. But, like most things in the New York Times, I took it as a political commercial as opposed to an informative piece of journalism.

After throwing the US health care system under the bus for two pages, the NYT does try to make a comeback with this kind of backhanded compliment - or maybe it's not a compliment.

Top-of-the-line care. Despite our poor showing in many international comparisons, it is doubtful that many Americans, faced with a life-threatening illness, would rather be treated elsewhere. We tend to think that our very best medical centers are the best in the world. But whether this is a realistic assessment or merely a cultural preference for the home team is difficult to say. Only when better measures of clinical excellence are developed will discerning medical shoppers know for sure who is the best of the best.

Is health care the most important issue in the upcoming US presidential election? Some people think yes and this editorial is proof of that. For me, it's just too early. It's a long 15 months until the election. However, I do appreciate that health care issues are probably getting a little more press than they did a year or two ago. Nothing will change without getting the public's attention. As I always say, we'll just have to see how this all plays out....

Paintball practice

In today's addition of Dr. A's small town news, here's a funny quote from the police blotter. It's always interesting to see what our citizens are doing around here.

A state Route 9, Salem, man reported Wednesday someone in a passing car fired paintballs that struck his son-in-law’s vehicle and nearly some children playing outside. Denny reportedly chased the vehicle into Perry Township, where it was stopped by police.

Viewing the video above, I never knew that paintball is such a big deal to some people. Of course, who am I to judge? I mean, for enjoyment and relaxation, I hit a little white ball around - but I love it!

Microburst

The weather experts were in town yesterday examining the damage (image credit) to declare if indeed a tornado went through here two days ago. In my meteorlogically naive mind, I thought it was self evident. I mean, there's wind and rain, and what looks like tornado damage. If it walks like a tornado and talks like a tornado, isn't it a tornado?

I guess not. In today's local paper, the official ruling is that what happened on Thursday is called a microburst. Huh? To me, that sounds like some like of science fiction term where Martians fly down, blow up your supermarket and gas station, and then leave.

“We were lucky,” Salem police Chief Robert Floor said after a Friday press conference on the storm damage at Eastgate Plaza.

“Yes, you were,” said Richard Kane of the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration.

Kane, a meteorologist based in Pittsburgh, was in Salem to advise city officials and the media that Thursday’s storm damage was not caused by a tornado but an 85 mile-per-hour microburst. Kane placed the event at 1:15 p.m.

Of course, being a skeptic on this, I did my own research on this. Don't get too excited. It was just a couple of Google searches. I did find some interesting information - at least for my education.

According to weather.com, here is the definition of a tornado: A tornado is a violently rotating column of air extending between, and in contact with, a cloud and the surface of the earth.

According to this article on the NOAA website, here is the definition of a microburst: A downburst is a strong downdraft which induces an outburst of damaging winds on or near the ground. Damaging winds, either straight or curved, are highly divergent. There are some interesting illustrations here.

Fortunately, there were no fatalities (there were rumors to the contrary) and there were no serious injuries -- just minor cuts and abrasions from flying glass and debris. Life is pretty much back to normal now.

The people around here (including me) will be trading "Where were you when it happened?" stories for a long time. Stuff like this never happens around here. Here's my favorite quote from the article.

No one was sucked out the door [of a local business during the microburst], the spokesperson said debunking a rumor, but a customer’s money was.

How funny is that? When I read that quote, I couldn't help but think of the 1996 movie called Twister with Helen Hunt (Ah... Helen Hunt...) and that what's his name guy. I remember seeing farm equipment and even animals being drawn up into the special effects tornados. Cool stuff - especially for 1996. Here's the trailer.

Tornado

This is what happened to my car (just kidding). Very weird here yesterday afternoon. I saw patients here at the office in the morning, and then actually had the afternoon off. This means that I went to the hospital and was in the medical records department doing some paperwork.

As the rain and wind got worse, at around 1:30pm, I said to myself, "At least I can finish more of my paperwork." I did hear some fire engines and police sirens outside. At the time, I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I mean, it is a hospital. There are sirens blaring around here all the time.

Little did I know what was going on outside. Less than a mile from where I was sitting, there as a possible tornado taking place. You'll see pictures of what was happening here, here, here, and here. Sheesh!

Where the picture was taken above was less than half a mile from our office. Authorities had to evacuate the area around the supermarket above because of a propane tank that came loose.

So, what our office staff told me today (because I wasn't here), was that authorities came into the office around 2:30pm yesterday afternoon and evacuated this entire medical complex/plaza. (I was at home at this point underneath my desk.)

It calmed down a bit for a couple of hours, then another line of storms came through. The winds were not as strong later in the afternoon - but a lot more rain. This storm will definitely be the talk of the town today. I may have an update for your later.

Update: Here's a quote from the AP story on the storm -- "Wind also damaged a restaurant and blew out car windows in a supermarket parking lot in Salem, about 15 miles southwest of Youngstown."

Genes may influence friendships

What really influences you - Genetics or Environment? This is a question that researchers have been asking for a long time. And, they have been applying this question to all aspects of the human condition. (image credit)

What about the friends that you pick? Is it the outside environment that influences you more, or your genetic make up? A study published in the Archives of General Psychiatry tries to answer this question. The researchers interviewed about 1,800 male twins aged 24-62 born in Virginia and listed in the Virginia Twin Registry. (WebMD)

In Kendler's study, identical twins were more likely than fraternal twins to make similar choices in their friends. So the researchers reason that genetics may play a role in choosing friends.

That doesn't mean that identical twins always chose the same type of friends. The findings aren't quite that iron-clad.

But Kendler's team estimates that when kids are 8-11 years old, genes explain 30% of their choice in friends, wiih that percentage rising to about 50% from age 15-25, as people mature into independent adults.

As always happens when this question is asked, the answer is somewhere in the middle. Yes, genetics play a role somewhat. And, yes, the environment plays a role somewhat.

For me, it's just interesting to think back to the friends that I had in childhood and compare them to the personalities and people who I am friends with today. I guess I do see some trends. I will be interesting to see as the rest of my life plays out to see if this trend continues.

Take cover!

Days and days of hot and humid weather around here culminated with big storms this afternoon - even with some tornados. It's still very windy and lots and lots or rain - as the above radar picture shows. Don't worry. I'm hiding under my desk - and blogging! I'm just a blogaholic, I guess....

Vasectomy for iPhone?

No, this is not a personal anecdote. But, this does beg the question, what would you do for an iPhone?

There's a story in today's Denver Post about one Sean Johnson (Yes, Mr. Johnson - How can I make this up?). Apparently, he was vacationing in Colorado Springs for a family reunion. He purchased an iPhone, but, according to the story, did not seek the permission of his wife first. Here's the rest of the story...

"We have five kids combined - sort of like our very own Brady Bunch ... and we have two children together," Johnson explains. "And she had made me promise that I would get a vasectomy at some point. I love having children, so I always thought in the back of my mind that there would be a chance that she would change her mind. But she didn't seem like she was going to be convinced. She didn't really want to go through another labor."

Who could blame iWife?

When the family met up at Denver International Airport to complete the trip, however, Johnson was "pouting" and carrying on as children often do without their toys.

That's when the wheels were set in motion for one of the most infamous deals in the history of nerds.

The deal stipulated that Johnson obtain a vasectomy, putting an end to the idea of more Johnson children. In turn, Johnson would be allowed to splurge on his iPhone.

Now, who would ever do this? I can just picture what this guy looks like and what his computer room at home looks like. There is no way that I (a post-modern and metrosexual man) would give into a deal like this - HA! So, did Mr. Johnson do through with this? This final quote sums it up...

"It's far from perfect, but it's by far the most perfect phone I've used."

(thanks to the Today in iPhone podcast for the story) (image credit)

Pinoy Prisoner Thriller

Judging by the almost 4 million views already on YouTube, I'm probably the last person to hear about this video. But what do you get when you put the above three words together? Courtesy of Wikipedia, here's what I found.

Pinoy: Pinoy is a demonym used by Filipinos for their compatriots in the Philippines and around the world.

Prisoner: A person incarcerated in a prison or jail or similar facility.

Thriller: Thriller is a 1984 hit single recorded by Michael Jackson.

Being a Filipino-American myself, I'm not sure whether to take pride in this video, or be really embarrassed. I mean, this is prison! I'm trying to think about how all of this was organized. And, in doing more YouTube searches, this is not the only song that this group does. Oh well, what did you think the first time you saw this?

Fechr.com

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